A long time ago, summer used to mean freedom and long afternoons. These days (and you parents can relate), it means later bedtimes, more time outside, and a lot more laundry. My son is almost 12 now. He doesn’t need help with every little thing anymore, but summer still throws our rhythm off. School ends, […]

May 25, 2025

Essential Oils for the Summer Season

Mother’s Day shows up on the calendar every year, but the deeper truth is this: most of us don’t need another scented candle, another tea mug, or another half-hearted “World’s Best Mom” T-shirt.  We need to feel seen. And yet every year, the ads pile in. Endless gifts that feel generic, forgettable, or worse, a […]

May 10, 2025

Conscious Mother’s Day Gifts That Matter

On Sunday, April 13, I found myself surrounded by racks of clothes, trays of jewelry, boxes of toys, and a steady stream of familiar faces. It wasn’t a shopping mall or a trade show—it was this year’s XUN Spring Charity Bazaar. I’ve been part of this event for a few years now, and each time […]

April 21, 2025

Decluttering for a Good Cause – the 2025 XUN Spring Charity Bazaar

Every home collects more than dust. It holds forgotten habits, expired intentions, and things we once thought we needed. Spring cleaning offers a pause. A way to reset your space without overhauling your life. When you choose natural products and thoughtful routines, you build a home that feels lighter, cleaner, and easier to manage—without harming […]

March 31, 2025

Spring Clean the Eco-Friendly Way

For International Women’s Day, I wanted to do something special—not just a gathering, but an experience. So I invited my closest girlfriends to House of Tan for a Traditional Chinese Incense Making class. We spent the afternoon surrounded by the rich, earthy scent of sandalwood and agarwood, rolling incense by hand, and sharing stories over […]

March 17, 2025

Incense Making for Beginners The Best Scents for Calm and Focus

I knew my son Nick understood organization when, at only 7 years old, he started making his own checklists. He didn’t need reminders to pack his school bag or plan his week—he had watched me do it for years and naturally followed suit. Now, as a pre-teen, he tells me what he needs to stay […]

February 23, 2025

How to Raise an Organized Child

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A long time ago, summer used to mean freedom and long afternoons. These days (and you parents can relate), it means later bedtimes, more time outside, and a lot more laundry. My son is almost 12 now. He doesn’t need help with every little thing anymore, but summer still throws our rhythm off. School ends, […]

May 25, 2025

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